Give in to your dark side

People talk a lot about motivation. Correction. Sorry. NOW people actually say motivation is bullshit, and what it really comes down to is discipline. I’m sorta in between. I agree no amount of motivation will create lasting change without a steely spine of...

Before, After, and 10 Years After

Time marches on. I don’t often use before & after transformations to promote my coaching because even when it’s done honestly (no photoshop or “sandbagging” the before pic) it’s still a bit short-sighted. I mean, yeah, I do it (it...

Social media and the happy/good/smarter test

Most people have figured out that social media companies are in the business of making money. If in that process you, their customer, reconnect with your high school friends, join an awesome fat loss group, or expand your own business, I’m sure Zuck is overjoyed...

Kicking bad habits in 2021

I learned a long time ago that adding a healthy, positive habit works way better when it replaces an unhealthy, negative habit. I thought this was because it managed overwhelm. You can’t just keep adding to your life, even good things. You eventually become...